He not shedding, and he's not ababy any more so it does hurt, I've tried a few things and he seems to be warming up to me! And I've held him but put him back down if his tail starts shaking and he starts hissing at me. And things have started to get better! But I think to get him completely comfortable will take about four more days of 30-40 minute handling!
I will definentaly try firm movements! Seems like a good idea thanks!
How is he outside the tank? If he only strikes at the intruding hands in the tank, try using a tool to grab him and transfer him to your hands. I've used a plastic whisk for hatchlings. My reptiles like it when my nails are painted. One of my snakes loves cherry blossom lotion, he will jump into my hands when I have it on.
My other trick is using plastic containers with holes cut into the lids as hides. That way I take up the hide, open it, and let the snake slither out into my hand.
He may simply be too hot, turn down his heat source a few degrees.
if you look at the pictures I posted before, there is a Ceramic Buddah planter thing in the cage, and that is what he crawls in. it came with him and that is what he was inside when he got here so I just left it in there with him.