OK...let's see if this helps...
This year, I bred a normal male with unknown hets. to an anery motley female het. for hypo and caramel and no other
known hets.
One baby popped out as an amel motley.
To your question, what does this mean? Well..the female is homo for motley and anery, and only KNOWN to be het for hypo and caramel. In order for me to get an amel motley, I need the male AND the female to be het for amel, since neither one are homo amel. It also means my male MUST be het for motley, because he is not homo motley.
So I now know, for certain, that my male is a normal het. amel and motley, and my female is anery motley het. hypo caramel and amel. I know this because in order to produce an amel motley, BOTH parents must provide the amel gene AND the motley gene.
Another example:
I have a male that is het. hypo/caramel/stripe. To prove this, I will breed him to a ghost stripe(to prove hypo and stripe) and to a butter motley(to prove caramel and further prove stripe).
If I pair this animal with the ghost stripe and I get NO stripes...it is reasonable to assume he is not het stripe. Same for hypo. It is not guaranteed, because odds CAN work against me. But in an entire clutch, I would expect to see at least one stripe and one hypo from the above pairing. If I DO get a hypo and a stripe, I know proof-positive that he IS het for hypo and stripe.
As a bonus, the above pairing will guarantee that ALL babies are het hypo/anery/stripe, because the mother is homo hypo/anery/stripe.
If I pair this male with a butter motley, I expect to see at least one caramel and at least one motley/stripe. For the same reasons above, it is not guaranteed if I only produce normals. However...the odds are reasonably in my favor to produce at least one of each trait in this pairing. Same as above...if I get one caramel and one motley/stripe, I know proof-positive he is het for these two traits.
As a bonus, again...all babies are 100% het. amel/caramel/motley because the female is homo amel/caramel/motley.
A bonus would be to pair him to a female amber stripe, however...they are out of my price range, and I don't know anyone willing to loan me a female amber stripe to prove his hets...so I will go the long route.
Basically...to prove a het, you want to breed you questioned animal to an animal that is homo for the trait you are proving. This increases your odds to a standard that all but guarantees reliability. As always with breeding hets...Murphy and the odds CAN play against you, and all normals do NOT mean the animal is not het. But ONE animal displaying the trait DOES guarantee the het status.
My goodness...I hope this didn't just further confuse you...
I'm bad at explaining things simply...