LizardMom, DiamondLil...
Lizard Mom,
We'll keep your son-in-law in our thoughts. I know it will be hard on your daughter and the kids. My son was 3-4 when my husband left for OIF the first time and he had a very, very hard time with it. Both of the older ones did.
Here's to his safe return.
Diamondlil,
I understand you! I won't go into our feeling about all this mess, but it very hard to balance my opinions and values with what my husband is doing. At the end of the day, he genuinely wants to help the Iraqis. He is, however, very vocal that they don't want us there and their leaders are in bed with ours. Many of them feel oppressed by what is often seen as an "occupation."
I have no answers. I know both sides want the best for us, for our military personnel, and for the people of the Middle East. We can't seem to agree on how we are to achieve what's best.
I am very proud of my husband in that he is willing to do what he feels is right. Not too many can say the same. He steps up to the plate, and I love him, no matter the differences in our politics!
Thanks again for the kind words and posts!
Carrie