As far as I'm aware:
Yes, motley and stripe share the same locus.
Yes, motley is dominant to stripe.
A visual motley het stripe does not HAVE to have the 'ribbon motley' pattern.
"Motley Stripe" is usually what I'm referring to as "Ribbon Motley" - which is one of the many motley patterns that can occur in homozygous motley animals as well as motley het stripe animals.
I'd kinda thought that Banded was a selectively bred motley pattern, but I wasn't sure.
Frosted, to my knowledge, is something else entirely that can be either selectively bred - or show hybrid heritage.