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bigtbone7

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this is an open apology to christen,cuduke and to all on this site.Ive been called a stalker and a creep i have said some things that i shouldnt have for that im sorry. I never ment to cause any hurt or pain. I know im a lil flirty and im sorry for that. i have sent apologies for my behavior but i dont think they were accepted. I would like to apologize to the owner of the site and all moderaters. I will not contact anyone here i have removed all from my friends list. Im only here for the threads. Christen has been so knowlagable about snakes and has helped me alot, i thank u for that. cuduke im sorry i gave u such a hard time about u being a furry i was just poking fun and would never cause u any harm. I served my country in iraq for 15 months and watched my friends die for this country and for what. well im truely sorry to everyone. Im not a stalker i promise. PLZ FORGIVE ME
 
In my opinion it should have never have came to this. And to air out peoples private lives in this manner is also not a good thing. These ladies are great peoples and did not deserve this. There are many of us here that suffer from PTSD and we do not use it as a pity device. Yes it is a good thing that you served our country but it is not a stepping stone to use on here with trying to score sympathy from the female population on here. I really hope that you meant what you said about not doing these things any longer. On here all we have is our reputations and once they are ruined they are usually not recoverable.
 
things was posted about me is what i heard so they were wrong in doing that as well. i do mean every word of my apology. im sorry i was taken so wrong and im not contacting any one ever again. just tired of the mean pvt messages ive been reciveing and was told that someone posted on their profile about me.
 
When people, especially married women, tell you they aren't interested, that means they aren't interested. You wouldn't have gotten such strongly-worded PMs if you had backed off the first time you were asked.
 
i sent them apologies and it was still posted publicly according to the pms ive recived so i feel like i was done unfairly because i quit and apologized yet it was still annouced publicly. im not trying to start anything i just wanted to apologize openly that is it i believe that i have done the right thing here since i was displayed publicly after i apologized pvtly
 
They started it privately and only went partially public when it continued.

To me this thread is a poor play at pity. The full public forum only gets your side and you get sympathy. They don't get the side of the people that you offended.

If you really wanted to apologize in public, you would not have put their names or specific issues. You could have easily left that part and people would have probably taken you much more seriously.

I agree with Bob, I truly hope you mean what you said.
 
well it was taken publicly so i apologized publicly. just trying to do the right thing thats all. im not looking for pity just trying to put things at rest that is all. like i said im not gonna contact anyone for any reason on here just here to read threads to help me with my snakes that is all
 
im just trying to make things right i know i did wrong and for that im truely sorry. thats all i can do is apologize. i really like this site and everyone has been great and im sorry for everthing i truely am. im not mad at anyone i was just letting every one know that i am sorry.
 
Well, after you apologize and then repeat your behavior over and over, and just keep apologizing, eventually people think your apologies may have been insincere.
 
My advice, not that you asked, would be, if you want to be accepted here after this, stick to snake talk.
 
ive done all i can do it can be accepted or not i really dont care like i said im not gonna contact anyone else ever again on this site. just gonna use the threads for advise for my snakes. i really dont know u ppl and u dont know me and im fine with that.
 
Nanci said:
Well, after you apologize and then repeat your behavior over and over, and just keep apologizing, eventually people think your apologies may have been insincere.
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Well, then let me make this official. If that apology is not genuine and the behavior being referred to EVER happens again, then "sayonara, dude".
 
Nothing has ever been said (to the best of my knowledge) about you publicly. Everything that was said was said one one between friends. When it was realized you were sending messages to many of us that is when it was brought to a group discussion. That is still private for the most part.

I felt really bad that I had to be pushed to the point of sending a nasty message to you but being nice about the inappropriate talk didn't work. You stopped and then started just a few days later. Then I try ignoring you and I get a nasty message from you for ignoring you.

My friends have known about this behavior for a few weeks now and you didn't get any comments until you posted this apology. So if you are getting mean comments it is because you have made it public, not me and not any of the other girls you have harassed. This apology is one that I have seen from you a number of times. Same exact words. I will have you know many of my family is military with PTSD and many of the members on here have PTSD as Bob stated. Many of them are my friends and would never dream to treat me or anyone the way that you have.

I second Nanci's comment about leaving all discussion to snake talk. This is not a forum for you to get your jolly's from.
 
i got nasty pms before this. im not gonna contact anyone else ok. so it was public before this to my knowlage, an according to the pms i got. ive been threatend and im just trying to make things write with those ive wronged i assure u all its never gonna happen again. so plz can we lay all this to rest plz. im not trying to hurt anyone im just asking for forgivness. we all arnt perfect and make mistakes and im just trying to make those mistakes right. ive never ment to hurt anyone and i was childish. no one deserved the way i treated them i was very wrong
 
so with everything being said i am sorry and im not gonna talk about it any more. ive said my sorrys and thats all i can do. everyone can accept it or not its out of my hands now good day and good bye
 
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