Mine are more comfortable with me, and we have our disagreements and our "I'm sorrys" Most of the time it's just a matter of business when they are being held, we seem to connect better when they are in their own safe and secure vivs, they look at you, they yawn, they cock their little heads. It's weird but it's almost like a mental conversation. I find it special when they interact with me on their own terms. Kind of like how I don't ask my dogs to give kisses, it's not a command as I've seen others do, but something they chose to do. When an animal as primal and distant as a reptile chooses to acknowledge you, it's something special.