If they're old enough to be eating and drinking on their own, they're old enough to be housed together. The breeding will come all in good time when they're ready. Even new colonies of breeding size adults can take up to a couple of months to show signs of breeding progress.
IMHO, its better to start them young with each other, that way the chances of injurious fighting is kept to a minimum.
As for weight...I agree with Quigs, you could potentially be wasting a few months of actual breeding time waiting for that weight (depending on the mouse). I've not really seen any detriment to breeding female mice too young, I typically wait for 6 weeks or so before starting them in any new colony unless they're transferred there while still nursing at an even earlier age (fuzzy or so).
For rats on the other hand, I bred a couple of females when they were still smallish, and birthing was really hard on them. I also believe it stunted their growth, as they never did grow to be the size of their mothers. Right now I'm raising up 8 replacement females and they're just now reaching the size of those small adult females. So maybe in a few weeks I'll attempt breeding a few of those females in the harem and see how it goes.