Here's what I've learned from handling my baby snake:
- She probably doesn't want to be picked up. Too bad; pick her up anyway. She needs to learn that it's ok to be handled!
- On that note, if she bites, let her bite. It won't hurt you and she'll almost certainly grow out of the behavior very quickly. Mine only did it the first time I handled her.
- Once you pick her up she will probably calm down. It may take a minute though, especially the first couple times. Be patient.
- Even a calm corn is almost constantly in motion. Squirming through your hands and over your arms is normal for her. Follow her movement, keep her supported, and gently encourage her from going the wrong direction (i.e. out of your grasp) by guiding her with your hands.
- She will try to escape you at some point! It's just gonna happen. If you are paying close attention, she will almost certainly not succeed, although you may have to grip her firmly for a second until you get her under control (which will only make her struggle more). It's ok to handle her above a bed or similar surface until you're comfortable that you can avoid losing her.
- Cats are a personal preference. If it makes you nervous, handle her in a room with a closed door. I've heard tales of cats that get along with snakes; I've also seen my cat look at Princess like he's ready to pounce, so I mostly keep them apart. This is absolutely a case of better safe than sorry!
- The golden rule: DO NOT HANDLE WITHIN 48 HOURS AFTER FEEDING. Some snakes take more time, some take less... but for now that's a safe time frame to use. Trust me on this; I've experienced snake barf due to handling and I still feel terrible guilty just thinking about it.
- Avoid the head! It's ok to support her head from underneath, but do not approach it from the side, above, or in front. That is how a predator would approach the snake; they don't like it!
- All of the above probably applies to your snake... but it might not! The best advice I can give is to learn how she communicates and listen to her moods. Princess will tell me when she wants to explore and when she'd rather just be held. She'll tell me when she's afraid of the cat or when she doesn't mind him being around. She is a smart little girl - and yours is too.