Number 1. You can not diagnose in a forum.
Number 2. Speculation, founded on a fraction of data, is not a viable diagnosis. In the mean time, with all the advice, no one really knows what happened or why. The possibility also exists that all the snake needed was a routine regamine of amykacin.
Don't judge? I offered my educated and experienced advice. I was tactful. I used "I" statements, please and thank you. I am not responsible for the reactive emotional choices of others. I, in turn, have been lambasted for language in a post 'judged' to be (allegedly) unpleasant. Accused of many a character failing. I am astonished to find that a person can have such intimate knowledge of my character as to know such things about me from a single, anonnymous post.
I do not promise to ever or always say only what others want to hear, to avoid saying anything that might hurt feelings or result in the reactive emotional tirade that was gifted to me. Obviously long timers have their allies on this site. But, is every position of thy internet friend worth backing? Participating with them to the extent of falling into episodes of the "Worst of us"? I hate when a forum becomes cliquish like the worst of high school. I, in my naivete, believed that I would interact with professionaly minded people here. I made one post, one!
Nothing changes without confrontation of some type to some degree. There is no progress without change. And people can discuss and disagree while still being considerate of the ideas of others and folowing basic rules of decorum. I am not insensitive, Read through the lines and you may discover that it is quite the opposite.
I entertain no hidden agendas, no misdirected compassion.I do not enable disfunctions, I sling no bull****. Facts are enough. Truths are enough. I am not interested in investing a lot of verbal foreplay and semantic contortion before I get to the point. Aren't we all mature here. Aren't we? How much sugar, denial and avoidance does it take to be an OK member of the group? Value is not determined by how sweetly something is offered or how pretty is it's cover. Value is determined by how applicable, useable and effective a thing is.
Tell me please, was my advice in error? Is veterinary care considered an option, among other members of cornsnakes.com for our dependent animal companions? Am I some kind of zelot?
Please know that I did read through the posts. Everyone was sympathetic. I was sympathetic too, to the feelings of the owner, but also to the plight of the snake, I still cry over losses I have experienced. What would be the point of using more space to add more maudlin? Comiseration is step one. Taking action; doing the right thing comes next. This snake needed the physical proximity of a professional, aka veterinarian. Prove me wrong and I will acquiesce.
Look, I do not ever intend to cause any kind of personal arguments. Regardless of how it's taken, I make no personal attacks. I do not hide in secrecy to carry out character assasinations. This unworthy issue has been morphed into something personal. To serve what good purpose? I have better things in my life that I can give my energies to. Like cleaning snake cages and updating the records, yada, yada, yada already.
"I will argue this issue no more forever."
History trivia buffs, who's quote have I paraphrased (massacred), and for which event was it spoken?
May God Bless you with whatever you need.
My Two Cents.
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