i also have a ball python and some great advice i was given i'll pass along to you.
create a routine. always go in to pick your snake up the same way... gently touch it on it's side to let it know you are about to pick it up, that way it doesn't get startled.
if you follow the same routine everytime then your snake will know what to expect and won't be as frightened.
hope this helps... it's use worked for me
and congrats on round one and two!!!