I think that the biggest thing you need to work on with your snake is your own patience with it. It is not a toy! Its a living, breathing creature that is not exactly domesticated like a dog. More like a wild animal that really does rely on its instincts. And right now, it is probably really freaked out by you and is just reacting to those instincts it feels. Once you let it settle in for a week without any handling, then feed it (in a seperate container....really anything will work, a plastic tub, a bucket, a pan, heck even a paper bag, just not in the *viv*) give it a few more days to digest with no handling, then, finally, then you can start to handle it a little bit each day. Wear those rubber gloves if you need too, but eventually you shouldn't need them, hopefully. The more and more gently you handle it and get more confidence the more confidence your snake will have in you as well and will learn that you are not going to eat him. Mine even falls asleep curled up around my arm, even sometimes while I am reading this very forum :crazy02: . So it is possible for your snake to eventually chill out and get used to you, but first you have to wait. Be patient, you've got 15 or so years to enjoy your snake.