ok...from here on in..i would suggest that you not handle her,move her or bother her in any way. Kathy's advice to me was..if nothing has been layed in a 48hr period then its time to act. Just leave her to it...no checking on her or bothering her. While you wait...check out the thread "first hook-ups for me" theres ALOT of good info/advice in there On a similar situation.