mbdorfer said:Anyone notice that the poster of this thread has not been back since. Some of these replies were a little harsh, I thought. A simple "do a search" would have been sufficient, as opposed to a mass attack. What works for one, may or may not work for the other one. And yes, I've housed corns together in the past. Sorry, but I think our goal here should be to help, not intimidate. :wavey:
"Intimidate" can be a subjective reaction to a behavior of another.
This is a public forum. Opinions are going to be expressed.
Sometimes people react to "nice" help as enabling. That is, some people need frank comments rather than ambiguous diplomacy.
IMO answering every common question with no more that "do a search" is a cop out. It also lessens the chance that a person will get specific input covering specific, faulty thinking.
There are many (pseudo) animal "lovers" who treat pets as if they are human-ie anthropomorphic thought. Sometimes this mind set can be so misguided and wrong as to result in neglect if not abuse.
You are obviously more inclined towards tact than I. It's good to have balance.