I can see why it would and I am sorry about that, it wasn't the intent behind the post.
IMHO, you are not describing the snake's reactions or behavior- but rather, you interpret them in a subjective manner. You're not sticking to facts but to your personal interpretation of them.
I can understand that. But I've come to these conclusions after a long time of watching her behaviors evolve. Like I said, I've truly had reptiles in my house since I was a child. I understand that when your lizard/snake does something cute, that they are more than likely not expressing affection towards you. For instance, when my snake licks my face, sure, I'll call them "kisses", but I know they are nothing of the sort and she's really just smelling/tasting my face. Also, I'll call it "cuddling" when she coils up on me, but I know as a snake owner that she's really just seeking my warmth and has become used to me enough to seek it on my lap. However, I say these things out of habit, so
the people I talk to can understand a snake's actions, not so that
I can. This is a part of something all reptile owners experience when trying to describe it to people who are otherwise unfamiliar with them.
Although she was my first personal snake, my mother was a reptile rescuer, and I do see her behavior as unique when I compare it to the behaviors of other snakes. Especially when it comes to her interactions with particular people, she really interests me in this aspect. It may be because that particular specimen has more sentimental value than the others, but I wouldn't feel that way if there weren't a reason for that. I interpret her behavior as her "liking" things for one simple reason, and that is because if snakes
don't like something, they tend to avoid it. Expressing repeated interest in one thing is as close to "liking" something as a snake is going to get, and who are we to say they can't like something.
You said yourself, we don't actually know. We can't understand, so we can only assume. There is a fine line between projecting "human emotions" on an animal and assuming what their behavior means. The ability to like something is not unique to humans, and neither is holding a preference towards something.
And I would never assume that we have some unique bond that is closer than anybody else has with their snakes, and in no way was I trying to suggest either of those. I am extremely interested in my snakes, and I observe them constantly. This snake is the only one I have to actually respond to my voice or to outside stimuli in a visible way, and that is undoubtedly what she does. Whether she actually likes it or not, it is still a testament to her alertness and her curiosity, and I'm assuming she's not a unique, all-knowing unusual snake, and other people have got to have snakes that exhibit the same behavior.
I think it may have been you who misinterpreted my post. When I said "Avid music fan", I was being half sarcastic and referring to her being constantly drawn to my speakers and her obvious investigation of them. All I really said was that she appears to have a great memory and recognizes outside stimuli, nothing really worth arguing about if you ask me.