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Jason! That is a great idea. At least, I'm sure this current situation would've been handled differently in an open forum.
I saw all this happening and sent a private message to the "offender." My main concern was that those who were upset would view me as a "snitch," But I wanted to let him know there was grumbling and suggest laying off posting one-liners, at least on old photos. I understood the ire of folks, I've felt it myself. At first glance his reply, seemed defensive and bitter. But then it reminded me why we all spend any of our valuable time visiting this website. We love the animals. I could name silvertounge, and a ton others. Some who made it a point to just agree with someone's husbandry. Or argue anyone's posts they didn't "like."
But it is really all transparent in time. Any time invested here, and we know who is a troll, who just likes to say "nice motley" when they like a photo, who is a newbie wanting respect as a sage because they read and regurge, who is an old timer stuck in their ways... I don't regret sending him a letter, I just wish I'd said "keep doing what makes you happy, just know how silly we're all being about it," instead of having a cautionary tone whatsoever. I thought I was being helpful. And I owe him an apology.
I saw all this happening and sent a private message to the "offender." My main concern was that those who were upset would view me as a "snitch," But I wanted to let him know there was grumbling and suggest laying off posting one-liners, at least on old photos. I understood the ire of folks, I've felt it myself. At first glance his reply, seemed defensive and bitter. But then it reminded me why we all spend any of our valuable time visiting this website. We love the animals. I could name silvertounge, and a ton others. Some who made it a point to just agree with someone's husbandry. Or argue anyone's posts they didn't "like."
But it is really all transparent in time. Any time invested here, and we know who is a troll, who just likes to say "nice motley" when they like a photo, who is a newbie wanting respect as a sage because they read and regurge, who is an old timer stuck in their ways... I don't regret sending him a letter, I just wish I'd said "keep doing what makes you happy, just know how silly we're all being about it," instead of having a cautionary tone whatsoever. I thought I was being helpful. And I owe him an apology.