Oh Danielle, that is so horrible that they're bringing your children into it. How old are they? I think I told you before that my sons both have their own issues. Luke has a mood disorder and OCD, and Matthew was just dx'd with ADD and is now also medicated. If someone dared to attack them in that type of manner, there would be absolute hell to pay.
Hang in there, D. Let me know if you ever need to talk. (((((Hugs)))))