Well, for me...a vet visit is nearly impossible. I live in the middle of the desert where the nearest vet that actually knows more than myself and a couple close friends about snakes is well over 200 miles away. That's not a simple 45 minute drive, mind you. That would require 2 full days off work, driving 5 hours to the vet with a 3 year old and a sick snake, spending several hours at the vets, spending the night, and driving 5 hours back the next day. It would have to be one mighty important snake for me to make that trip.
Call me what you will, and feel how you would like...I can't afford a $500 road trip on TOP of the thousand dollar vet bill for a normal corn that I can replace for $25. I really don't care how anyone feels about me for making this decision, but quite frankly, if the cost of caring for my animal's medical needs goes well beyond what the animal is worth, the animal is simply not getting the care. That would go for a dog, cat, guppy, or any other animal I have found myself in possession of over my lifetime.
And before anyone says it...no, the same is NOT true for my daughter. If my house needs to be evacuated, and I have room for either my daughter OR my snakes...the snakes stay behind, no matter their worth. The lives of my snakes are NOT worth the same as the life of my daughter, I do NOT feel the same love and companionship for them that I do for her, and where they are relatively easy to replace, she is a treasure that could never be. So don't even try to feed me the guilt trip about it, 'cause it simply isn't going to work.
With that said, I DO have several close friends that work closely WITH vets, and are able to provide better than average medical care specifically related to snakes when I find myself in need. I also maintain a supply of broad spectrum antibiotics and hypos at my house, "just in case", and I find that I am fairly capable of handling most problems either through my own knowledge, the knowledge found here and on other forums, and through close contacts in my area. I am good friends with several trained animal and reptile rescue personnel that specialize in the rehabilitation of wild reptiles, and if they cannot diagnose and cure my snakes, no local vet will...in fact, the local vet would tell me to call one of them if I DID go to his office with a snake issue...he always does.
I also have no problem making a decision as to when a snake's pain, suffering, or chance of survival override my right to preserve it's life. I have euthanised adult snakes that simply would not make it. I am in the process of considering when to end the struggle of a yearling that seems hell-bent on starving himself. He falls below the 50gram cutoff, so I shouldn't be talking about him, but...it is still a decision I need to make.
I try my best to take the best possible care of all of my snakes. They have good homes with clean bedding(not newspaper), hides, water dishes, foliage and "apparatus" even though they are housed in racks. If they become ill, I do everything I can to diagnose and help cure their illness, which, so far and knocking on wood, has worked just fine. But unfortunately, I cannot rationalize spending several hundred to a thousand dollars to possibly cure a $50 snake. Those of you with high-paying jobs, single lifestyles, and no children are welcome to think less of me for it. You can call it cold, or heartless, or irresponsible, or whatever you want...I call it rational and reasonable. It won't be the first time someone has thought less of me than I think of myself, you can be sure.
And for the record--Elle, I don't think you should address people so vociferously. This is a topic that is bound to spark emotional responses and different opinions. If you cannot control your emotions when responding to people with different opinions, than perhaps this is one topic you should avoid reading. I say that because I am quite positive I know what your reaction is going to be to my post. So before you get all emotional and tell me how evil I am, let me set the record straight...I don't care what you or anyone else thinks. This is a decision that I must make FOR myself and BY myself. Your opinion of my decision won't matter, so please don't waste your time or energy writing an emotional response...I still appreciate and respect you...we just have different opinions on this particular matter.