Good Advice . . .
Well, I've found that most pet shop employees, even owners, don't know as much about corns as they say they do . . .
Seriously, if Kathy Love told me to do/not to do something with Monty, I'd be on it. I've got her book . . . it is amazing. I think she's been breeding corns since the 70's . . . if you can find anyone more knowledgeable in corns please let me know!!
That aside, perhaps some corns you can handle right off, and that's fine. However, you are already having problems with yours. You have to ask yourself right now if you want to give your snake time to adjust and hopefully end up with a handleable pet, OR if you want to continue to scare it and perhaps ingrain this striking behavior for life. What's it going to hurt give the baby 3 days, then feed, then leave alone for 2 days? THEN see how he/she reacts to being handled. I wouldn't even start trying to handle the snake again until then.
Now, I don't claim to be an expert as I've only had Monty over a month. But I will say this . . . at the store he was calm and happy and slithered all over me and my kids. When I got him home he was scared to death, not the happy lil snake I'd handled at the store. So I left him alone for 3 days, then I fed him a tiny pinky, then I left him alone for 2 more days. It was hard!!! But I'm planning to have this snake for a loooooong time, so what's a week? Then we'd take him out every day for 10 or 15 minutes and handle him, never had a problem. We did that for a few weeks except when he was digesting. Now I take him out and handle him sometimes for several hours at a time, no problem. But I think that's cause I took the time to let him settle into his environment.
No, a snake is not a dog or a cat, but I'm quite sure they have feelings. It is obvious they can be scared. Yes, there is a time to ignore their frightened striking and handle them anyway to teach them that it's okay, but that is AFTER you've given the snake a chance to get used to it's new environment. You are stressing that snake way too much. Give it 3 days before feeding, please! Another thing is that if the snake is still very nervous when you try to feed you risk a refusal or worse, a regurge . . . and with a new baby that is somewhere you don't want to go because if that goes on long enough it can be life threatening.
Good luck!!!! Keep us posted, I'm hoping to hear in a few days that your baby has settled down and eaten and is quietly digesting . . .
Oh, and if you have a Petsmart go get Kathy Love's book, "The Corn Snake Manual". It's wonderful!!! But do NOT look at the pics of the different colors - or you'll be thinking about your next corn!! :laugh: