Not at all. My reluctance had a lot more to do with my family's opinion of the situation, which I am sorry to say has really not been resolved.
But oh well, such is life. I can't spend my entire life waiting around for them to grow brainstems.
Well you know what they say: "You can pick your friends, but you can't pick family." Glad you didn't decide to wait for them to come around. Life is way too short to live it without being happy. So you should enjoy that happiness to the fullest. They will come around eventually when they figure out that it is being with each other that brings you that happiness.
Been through this with my family a bunch.