Wow, what a crazy thread! Here are my thoughts:
I researched for at least a year before buying my first snake. Had no clue there was a book written after 1960 about corns (could only find ones written in the 50's before some of the great technologies now available to us came out). Got my first corn in a trade and got bad info from the former owners. Few days later found this site and read and read and read. Then asked tons of questions. Then found out about Kathy Love's Book and got it. Read it until it fell apart and got the new one. I am being more careful with it lol.
Even after reading her book I had questions because she could not write everything is a small affordable volume such as what she sold. Kathy's book gives great basic info, this forum fills in the blanks and the spaces between that.
Even if you read EVERY book out there about corn snakes you would still have questions. So telling people to NOT ask questions is counter intuitive as well as counter productive.
As to feeding live. Very few CORNS will refuse FT. BPs are very different from corns. They eat larger prey, eat less often and I find that some people who have BPs but no experience with corns tend to think corns should eat a LOT more and more often because it is our lack of feeding properly that keeps them trim and small. The woman I am getting a pair of corns from had a friend who has BPs who told her that her female being grossly fat was healthy and normal, just look at her BP. I convinced the woman she had done a great disservice to her snakes by feeding this way. In the end she has decided to give them to me to be taken care of propperly. . . .Um, wait I was talking about live feeding, sorry! If you can not put mice in your family freezer, go out and get a freezer for your snakes. Or something. I have a chest freezer for family food and use the fridge freezer for my snakes food. The chest freezer cost $200. I saw one at walmart recently for like $150. Some people spend that much just on one snake so why not a freezer? There are smaller ones available online. Check ebay. I'd rather give up some space to a spare freezer than risk my snake being brained one day by an agressive mouse. That is IF the snake gave me a feeding choice. Mind you only know if you have a choice by actually putting a month or so into only offering FT or FK. Also if you can not stomach killing a mouse yourself, how can you stomach watching and listening to that live mouse scream and struggle? It will only get worse as the snake grows and needs larger prey.