Chat room - listen up, please

[PtDnsr]

I probably shouldn't post because I know I'll most likely get myself in trouble for this. I just wanted to point out something on the whole "clique" mentality. I've been around for a year and a half or so. In that time I've gone from a newbie to a not-quite newbie. I visited chat more when I first started and felt a little bit like an outsider. Now when I do visit chat on occasion I don't feel like an insider. People actually know my name and say "hi katie" when I come in. I think it's partly being around for a while since there are so many people that come and go. I also think that as long as you follow good etiquette that everyone in chat will accept you. I don't believe that there is a chat "clique" - just a good group of friends that are regulars but willing to let polite others in. Just my .02

~Katie

 

[Rich Z]

It's not only Joe who's being, what was it, whiney? I have sent two mostly polite e-mails to Rich with chat logs asking for help on the matter. I wasn't demanding, I was curious as to anything that could be done to either separate CS chat into its own entity or tell the people who repeatedly make a mockery of themselves to stay away. I even apologized for sending him the chat logs, knowing he's busier than a one-armed paper-hanger these days, and I get back a rude reply. Maybe it was warranted, I'll never know.

Rude reply? How so? Let's recreate the crime scene so you can point out my rudeness to me..

First email from you:

----- Original Message -----
From: Misty Lundberg
To: [email protected]
Sent: Tuesday, August 29, 2006 10:13 PM
Subject: Chat Bullschtick


Rich,

I know how you've said not to bug you with this sort of stuff, but the chat annoyances are getting really old. It seems every night we have some asshat in there proclaiming himself to be god of , boas hots, or other people just there solely to cause trouble.

So tonight I made a separate room, after telling someone politely several times to take his non-corn talk elsewhere and a fight ensued. I made the room to be able to carry on a halfway intelligent conversation, and then this person comes in from the old cornsnakes chat room...

fanna1: taceas
Serpwidgets_CS: LMAO
cornsnakekid92_CS entered the room.
CARattler40_CS: Dammit
fanna1: u r crap!
hana_CS: yes, please!
Hurley_CS's new status is 'administrator'.
fanna1: and parker says that ur a bitch....
CARattler40_CS: rofl
fanna1 is going to The Lobby
fanna1 has left the room.
hana_CS: wooo
CARattler40_CS: Someone wants to get banned.
Wilder_CS: Whaa, boo hoo?

Is there anything that can be done to separate cornsnakes chat from Fauna? Or is it a whole escapade? Btw, jparker is the one who rattles off his extensive list of hots just about every night like it truly matters. We've asked him in the past to either talk something resembling corns or to go to the lobby, each time a fight starts as he thinks its his born right to talk about whatever he wants wherever he wants. I hate being a whiny baby, but man, why can't shooting people be legal? =P


Misty Lundberg

And my reply:

----- Original Message -----
From: Rich Zuchowski
To: Misty Lundberg
Sent: Wednesday, August 30, 2006 3:23 AM
Subject: Re: Chat Bullschtick


Well to set up a separate chat would likely require me buying another separate chat software license. Somewhere to the tune of $700 if I remember correctly. And I'm not exactly certain I could run both of them on the same server. So perhaps I would need to get another server just to run CornSnakes.com on. What do you think? Sound like fun yet?

If you can figure out a way to keep cretins off of a website, I'll buy a dozen of your solutions. Name your price..............

Rich Zuchowski

Then your second email to me:

----- Original Message -----
From: Misty Lundberg
To: Rich Zuchowski
Sent: Monday, September 04, 2006 8:10 PM
Subject: Ban me? =P


Feel free to ban me...but here's a good idea of what we put up with every night...

Pay attention to Clarinet45, she causes trouble just about every time she's in CS.


RealChat Server Version 2.2.2a, Enterprise Edition
Welcome to the FaunaClassifieds Chat Room!

10 people in 9 rooms.
Taceas_CS entered the room.
You are in Cornsnakes.
There are 1 people in the room.

Cornsnakes [1] Taceas_CS,
No Tards [9] Serpwidgets_CS, Hurley_CS, jazzgeek_CS, Daeraelle_CS, Candy_Cane1_CS, Fenderplayer108_CS, shed_n_my_skin_CS, jzal8_CS, lefty_mussolini_CS,

Taceas_CS is going to No Tards
Taceas_CS entered the room.
You are in No Tards.
There are 10 people in the room.
Room owner: Serpwidgets_CS
lefty_mussolini_CS: LOL
jazzgeek_CS: Ooooh, and the sweat!
Candy_Cane1_CS: FLAMO
Serpwidgets_CS: LMAO @ Misty
Taceas_CS: Oook.
Serpwidgets_CS: WHat did you do already?
Taceas_CS: Beats the hell out of me.
Candy_Cane1_CS: Taceas_CS: that was odd
CARattler40_CS entered the room.
Taceas_CS: Got lagged to hell coming in here.
CARattler40_CS: Testing.
lefty_mussolini_CS: me too
Serpwidgets_CS: 1, 2, 3
CARattler40_CS: Heh.
jazzgeek_CS: wb Carlos who sucks at the internet where nothing happens
CARattler40_CS: LOL
CARattler40_CS: ty Dale.
Taceas_CS: So, I'm guessing we had some boa talk earlier?
CARattler40_CS: Of course.
Serpwidgets_CS: And leotards.
Taceas_CS: Usual suspects?
jazzgeek_CS: yeah
CARattler40_CS: Yup
Serpwidgets_CS: R_A and some other fauna person
jazzgeek_CS: 5 minutes to Wapner
CARattler40_CS: People who lacked the _CS at the end of their name.
Hurley_CS: Yeah
Taceas_CS: lol
lefty_mussolini_CS: did anyone see the guy the other day that asked what the most money any of us has sold a corn for?
CARattler40_CS: Yes.
Taceas_CS: No.
lefty_mussolini_CS: I told him Trundlefart Corn for 250,000
CARattler40_CS: I've seen the "what's the most expensive and popular corn morph nowadays?" question a million times.
Serpwidgets_CS: Heh, did everyone say 5 dorrar?
Hurley_CS: One hundred BILLION dollars.
Taceas_CS:
Taceas_CS: And agreed Carlos...I've seen it enough times already this year.
Candy_Cane1_CS: Hurley_CS: Is that rasom money?
jazzgeek_CS: I've got some het Trundlefarts that I'm gonna be selling cheap.
clarinet45 entered the room.
lefty_mussolini_CS: he said "I doubt that"
Serpwidgets_CS: LOL
CARattler40_CS: LOL
CARattler40_CS: I'm getting sick of this lag.
clarinet45: why can't we talk about boas?
Serpwidgets_CS: Wasn't that a card game?
CARattler40_CS: 'cause Boas suck.
Daeraelle_CS has left the room.
Candy_Cane1_CS: Im not lagging at all o-o;
clarinet45: lol
lefty_mussolini_CS: and I said "I SWARE REED ABOWT IT IN TEH KATY MANULA!!!11"
clarinet45: what about beardies?
CARattler40_CS: LOL
Taceas_CS: Preferrably not.
clarinet45: what about balls?
lefty_mussolini_CS: and then he left
CARattler40_CS: Balls suck.
Taceas_CS: What about the lobby?
Fenderplayer108_CS: lol lets go to the cornsnake forum to talk about boas
CARattler40_CS: #
lefty_mussolini_CS: Suck Balls?
clarinet45: is that why you don't have any? lol
Candy_Cane1_CS: XD
jazzgeek_CS: http://www.cafepress.com/cronsankes.72820826 <--------- I love this. I want this.
Serpwidgets_CS: BUUUUUURN!
clarinet45: this is the 'no tards' room, not the cornsnake room
CARattler40_CS: Why are you here then, Sara?
clarinet45: why are you so uptight about the cornsnake room anyway?
lefty_mussolini_CS: No Tards... sponsored by Corn Snakes
CARattler40_CS: Hey I think it's raining.
Taceas_CS: Because we don't like snobs.
jazzgeek_CS: why do you presume we're uptight?
Fenderplayer108_CS has left the room.
Taceas_CS: If you don't like it, you can leave the same way you came in.
clarinet45: cause i get a ton of ppl in the lobby telling me about this bitch Taceas that puts them down for being in the cornsnake room
Daeraelle_CS entered the room.
lefty_mussolini_CS: the Cron Sankes shirt is RAD
jazzgeek_CS: and when was the last time you heard someone say "uptight"? I think it was Season 2, episode 5 of "The Mod Squad" for me.
clarinet45: lol
Serpwidgets_CS: Dude if you came in here to fight with someone, you can go elsewhere.
CARattler40_CS: srsly.
clarinet45: i'm not fighting
lefty_mussolini_CS: buleeted?
clarinet45: i come in to talk to ppl and i get &*!@ing attacked
jazzgeek_CS: no, you're not fighting. You're just being a cunt.
Taceas_CS: So get the feck out.
lefty_mussolini_CS: delteeded?
CARattler40_CS: Attacked?
clarinet45: you're a cunt
CARattler40_CS: "Y CANT WE TALK ABOUT BOAS??//"
Serpwidgets_CS: Srsly
clarinet45: ah, i was being sarcastic?
jazzgeek_CS: Great retort. The Pee-Wee Herman School of Debate.
CARattler40_CS: LOL
Taceas_CS: lol
Candy_Cane1_CS: LOL
jazzgeek_CS: "I know you are, but what am I?"
Serpwidgets_CS: And you really need to ask now why we created our own room?
clarinet45: or is this the no-humor room?
CARattler40_CS: Yeah, we have no humor.
lefty_mussolini_CS: Mommy... Daddy... stop fighting
CARattler40_CS: Jokes? What are those?
clarinet45: thought so
clarinet45 has left the room.
CARattler40_CS: #
Serpwidgets_CS: Srsly
Serpwidgets_CS: What a dick.
Candy_Cane1_CS: Yeah.
jazzgeek_CS: Mommy and Daddy fight because you cry too much.
Serpwidgets_CS: No wonder she's on Fauna.
lefty_mussolini_CS: ROFL
CARattler40_CS: Dunno what her problem is, she was alright most of the time.
Candy_Cane1_CS: LOL
CARattler40_CS: was
Serpwidgets_CS: Ya, was.
Taceas_CS: She was alright till she called me names for giving away my mean beardie.
Taceas_CS: A few months back
Serpwidgets_CS: WHY CAN'T WE TALK ABOUT BOAS?

And my reply:

----- Original Message -----
From: serpenco
To: Misty Lundberg
Sent: Monday, September 04, 2006 8:37 PM
Subject: Re: Ban me? =P


Well, that display certainly gives me reason to think I should just take away the chat room from everyone. I see about 4 people I could ban right off the bat from how they were acting there. Makes me feel that I am maintaining a public nuisance with the chat rooms.

Rich Zuchowski

So please, show me where I was rude, as you have pointedly accused me of doing.

 

[gwb8568]

sounds to me like closing the chat room for a while is going to be your best option to prove your point........it is YOUR forum. there are some of us (myself included) that do help out with the yearly membership, but it's obvious not everyone can be held responsible for the jr. high crap that goes on. and if you have to do something as drastic as that to get your message across, then maybe a lesson will be learned. it's pretty sad that the majority of the members that are apart of this website are grown adults, but yet some still act like their at a 5th grade recess fight.

 

[JM :o)]

Excuse me.....Please don't suggest he shut off Chat. There is a whole room full of people there right now behaving. Why do you want Chat shut down? You don't like it so no one else should?

Rich~ Please leave chat exactly where and how it is.
Thanks

 

[Drizzt80]

Dude, you don't type a two line response in 5 seconds. He was typing that well before I started my gtfo. Too bad chat logs aren't slapped with a time stamp, because responses between that was very short.

You can if you're a good typer and talk in chat speak . . . another complaint against the non-cornsnake people . . .

How about the other questions/comments I directed your way? Very convenient you ignored all of them.

. . . and you're NOT acting like you own the place?!

From Joe_jo's second question about tortoises, he got told this is CORN SNAKE chat. (Funny, just after entering the room someone got called a butthead didn't know that was corn snakey). Got asked if this looked like a tortoise chat room. Got told they have shells (DUH!). Got told they swim (WRONG.). Got mocked with "dis is da cron sankie chat room" and then told to gtfo. All of this BEFORE his SPAZ session . . . Interesting.

What's it mean when you're already in the place and act like an ass?! That's a more important question and one I think Rich is asking us to think about. Am I defending this guy? Nope. But I don't condone the reaction that he received neither. I guess if you want to talk Lesser Of Two Evils, yeah fine, but that doesn't remove the Classless way he was treated either.

Walk away! Corn Chat doesn't define you as a person does it?! Srsly?!

Thanks for more ammunition . . . not a good example . . .

Clarinet comes into a private chat room . . . how'd she get in there if it was private? Aren't private chat rooms password blocked? If not, then they're not private! DUH! But I digress . . . SO, Clarinet comes into private chat and the first words out of her mouth are:
clarinet45: why can't we talk about boas?
The answer she was give . . . ?
CARattler40_CS: 'cause Boas suck.
CLASSY!! :sidestep:

I've been in chat, I enjoy going into chat when my schedule allows, I love venting in chat, I love conversations in chat, I love the people in chat, I love the debates in chat . . . There is no way I can love nor defend the language and behavior that is displayed towards Non-CS members that are Off-topic. Srsly . . . Yes, it's High School.

D80

D80

 

[Drizzt80]

I'm really surprised the topic of the "Ignore" button has not come back up since Rich mentioned it. Exactly what is so painful about using it when someone's in there talking about something you don't want to hear?

"They" don't want to miss the fun nor the chance to berate someone entering the room . . . :shrugs:

D80

 

[Drizzt80]

Agreeing with Joe for once, yes I'll note this in my diary, people are only seeing what they want to see here. People aren't seeing chat as it is day in and day out. They aren't seeing the commraderie and fun we have in there before the idiots from Fauna come over. They're only seeing members of CS chat being rude and offensive. That's their choice I guess.

For those of you saying that chat is a clique, but yet I never recall ever seeing you there, how can you know what something is unless you actively participate or even try to participate?

Agree with most of what you posted Taceas, and you know I tend to respect your opinion, etc. etc. etc. While Joejr (and a few others) are 'screaming' that it's Joe_jo's fault, there is absolutely no way, 100% you can condone the behavior of the CS.com members in the chat logs that have been posted. The behavior is elitist, cliquey, and condescending. Period. When everyone is pointing their finger at everyone else, there are three pointing back at yourself! Jazzgeek recognizes that, I recognize that (I tend to engage Vinman in arguments - right or wrong), either way, the behavior is neither warm nor welcoming towards others joining chat. Jazz has already touched on that I believe.

I just hope we don't lose the benefit of having chat available. :shrugs:
And, I repeat my question to everyone . . . Does chat define who you are as a person?! Srsly!? (No, it doesn't, but your behavior in chat does!!)
D80

 

[Drizzt80]

A long, long time ago, a person popped up in chat and asked in a very juvenile way if anyone kept crested geckos. I said I did, and then was badgered for a solid hour about the most basic husbandry issues. I repeatedly told said person to read a few care sheets. That didn't work. More badgering. I told said person to leave me alone to no avail. So, I put the person on ignore.
Am I the only one who sees how this might cause the tempers otherwise mild mannered people to flair up? Perhaps I am, but to tell everyone they just have to get along because 'I said so', isn't going to work.
Now, I'm not saying we don't get out of hand from time to time, but you can only bat the fly away so many times before you want to slap it.
hana

Kudo's to you hana! The description you gave is light years away from how others get treated in CS_chat. I think that's what Rich is referring to. Nowhere in your story did I see "gtfo" 10 lines after a question being asked. Oh, and wonderful use of the ignore button! I give your post a 9.8!! :crazy02:

Interestingly enough, all these ego's with all this knowledge we profess to hold, yet noone wants to help anyone because it's interupting our chat time. "But they're so rude D80! And they talk funny." . . . who's the adult in the situation? Srsly?! Reading through the chat logs that Rich has posted . . . man, I feel sorry for him having to 'deal with this' and would not blame him one bit for closing down chat for a while. :shrugs:

D80

PS. You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to hana again.

PPS. Unless Joejr has some profound "Dude" response for me, I don't think I have too much to add to the conversation and will proceed to step down of my high horse and/or soap box. :shrugs:

 

[Joejr14]

You can if you're a good typer and talk in chat speak . . . another complaint against the non-cornsnake people . . .

How about the other questions/comments I directed your way? Very convenient you ignored all of them.


D80

After this I am done. I debated even answering these questions because it is very evident that some of you just don't "get it" and quite frankly, it's pretty sad.

Anyway...


Read that chat log again, Brent. Do you find it interesting that he came in, asked about torts---didn't get a response. Asked again---and got a reply---and then he went off immediately?

I direct you towards one of his lovely off-color comments:

Joe_Jo: U GUYS ARE ASS HOLES. NO ONE ELSE IS ON AND I HAVE A SIMPLE QUESTION. U GUYS DONT GIVE N E ONE A CHANCE TO ASK QUESTIONS. UR %&*!ING RETARDS WHO THINK UR SO COOL WITH UR _CS AT THE END OF YOUR NAMES.

Joe_Jo: IT STANDS FOR COCK SUCKERS

Okay, if you're 'new' to the boards, do you really notice the _CS at the end of the user names? He thought of that pretty quick, don't you think?

Mind you, this was after he rudely entered the chat room with this:

Joe_Jo: does n e one know n e thing about tortoises

Not once, but twice, and within a few seconds. Obviously a copy and paste job, IMO.

Where am I going? Imo, this was a kid who was bored---had heard we don't like it when the boa folk come and ruin our chat, and decided to be a wise-ass. This was a setup, not a legit person asking a legit question. This guy wanted to be a pain in the ass---have us freak out, and then cuss us out.

Now, since I know you're going to say, "well maybe he was serious, so you should have answered him". Alright, fair enough.

If this was SUCH a pressing issue that he had to come into the chatroom and interrupt a conversation, then after all our horrible rudeness did he not go back to Fauna and make a post asking for help?

In fact, of this guys 46 posts on Fauna, not ONE is about torts.

Be my guest and look: http://www.faunaclassifieds.com/forums/member.php?userid=31690

Most of his posts are in for sale/wanted forums replying to random threads saying he wants those snakes and wants to know how much. Be my guest and read the threads.

Furthermore, what in your right mind would lead you to believe that going into a CORNSNAKE chatroom is going to help you answer a question about a friggin tort?!?!

Why should we have to walk away? You know what Brent, I'm tired of walking away. We've had to do that crap ever since Egg, Connie, Serp and I would sit in chat 2 years ago to get people into the room. Whether it be the boa guys coming in and taking over the chat, or this crap with the trolls, I am damn tired of ignoring people, making a new room, having to boot people, etc etc. Maybe that's wrong, but I'm just tired of doing it. Why can't people have one single shed of decency? It's a real pain to put someone on ignore, and then have them leave and come back over and over again----each time having to put them on ignore. If the chat had a global ignore that would save your options....sure.

Another thing----when you have a troll on ignore and certain members that participate in chat keep talking to said troll---it makes things VERY confusing. While they might think it's cute to play with the troll, it really screws up the flow of the room. And IMO, we shouldn't have to run away from trolls---that's ridiculous.

As for the 'private room' bit....what does it matter if it had a password or not? Obviously, that's what we need to do from now on. However, in this situation this person came into regular chat---harassed people. Everyone left---she followed. Again---why should we have to run? When did it become a rule that we had to talk to everyone? If your sole purpose of coming into CS chat is to piss people off, I have zero sympathy for how you're treated. And that is what these people are doing---getting bored and coming in to piss people off---and it works.

Again, it is NOT about off topic discussion. Why can't you guys get that through your head. It is about how it is done and the way you present yourself.

And Brent, you've been in chat on more than one occasion when something like this has happened and you've done the exact same things we have done, so do not get this 'holier than thou' nonsense---it's absolute garbage. I dont know what your problem is, but it sure seems that you're just interesting in 'fighting' and 'winning a debate', regardless of the actual merit of the debate.

Hey, maybe next time I'm walking down the street and see a group of people talking, I'll walk up and interrupt them and ruin their conversation with some cornsnake chat. I bet they'd like that, don't you think? Come on folks, those people would tell me to STFU, they wouldn't "listen to what I had to say" because what I had just done was extremely rude----to the point that it's hardly ever done in the real world. I have no idea when this became accpetable online.

One final comment: I've very disappointed with more than a few people that have responded to this thread---and participate in chat. You know who you are, so I'm not going to call anyone out---but for you folks to sit in chat and laugh at what is said to trolls, or to be in on the comments yourself---and then come here and scold us and tell us we're rude---SHAME on you.

 

[CARattler40]

Interestingly enough, all these ego's with all this knowledge we profess to hold, yet noone wants to help anyone because it's interupting our chat time. "But they're so rude D80!...

I would consider this a valid point if there were people actually requesting help in the chat room, because when someone finally does have a serious question, it usually gets answered rather quickly. But there is a huge difference between the every day newbie coming in to ask a snake question and some idiot going in there to literally demand answers (which can usually be found on Google). I think it's pretty much understood people will respond better when someone asks for help politely than when they go in there blasting and flooding for info about random species of animals many of us have never even dealt with.

I'm just sayin', your post makes it seem like people in chat are purposely withholding helpful info "2 b meen." I'm a nightly regular in Chat, and I've seen other regulars divulge genetics and care info plenty of times, as well as help when someone has a question about breeding mice, or even boid care (which, OH EM GEE, aren't corn snakes! :eek1: ), and I'll even help out with husbandry questions when and if I can (I'm still learning a lot myself). I've learned a lot from watching the responses to such questions, and am glad I get to spend time in chat with such knowledgeable people night after night. We're not totally horrible people, whether this recent event makes it seem like the case or not.

And I really love how certain other people have found ways to twist this discussion every-which-way and make it into a debate over "cliques" and our treatment of "new" members. This is not about off-topic...ness. Maybe if these people bothered to spend even the smallest bit of time in Chat, they'd have some idea of what they were talking about.

 

[jazzgeek]

One final comment: I've very disappointed with more than a few people that have responded to this thread---and participate in chat. You know who you are, so I'm not going to call anyone out---but for you folks to sit in chat and laugh at what is said to trolls, or to be in on the comments yourself---and then come here and scold us and tell us we're rude---SHAME on you.

< /irony>

regards,
jazz

 

[Drizzt80]

Readd that chat log again, Brent. Do you find it interesting that he came in, asked about torts---didn't get a response. Asked again---and got a reply---and then he went off immediately?

Funny, I did read it, 3X now. Did you read my comments? He didn't immediately go off. In fact, he didn't 'go off' until exactly 6 lines after being told to gtfo along with approximately 21 lines after his question. 9 of which could be construed as rude (including the gtfo comment).

Okay, if you're 'new' to the boards, do you really notice the _CS at the end of the user names? He thought of that pretty quick, don't you think?

Where does it indicate he was new to the boards in the first 21 lines? Besides, thinking of things quickly is quite the forte' of a few around here. Why is this guy so undeserving of the ability? :shrugs:

Mind you, this was after he rudely entered the chat room with this:
Joe_Jo: does n e one know n e thing about tortoises

Please, for the love of God. Tell me, what is so damned rude about that question??!! Especially when compared to "GTFO"???!!! Is it his spelling?! I watch you and Carlos and Serp PWND practically everyone over nothing . . . Do I whine that it's rude? No, sometimes I join in.

Where am I going? Imo, this was a kid who was bored---had heard we don't like it when the boa folk come and ruin our chat, and decided to be a wise-ass. This was a setup, not a legit person asking a legit question. This guy wanted to be a pain in the ass---have us freak out, and then cuss us out.

Hilarious!!! To use someone elses expression, was Joe_jo on a grassy knoll with a laptop?

Now, since I know you're going to say, "well maybe he was serious, so you should have answered him". Alright, fair enough.
. . . blah blah blah . . .
Furthermore, what in your right mind would lead you to believe that going into a CORNSNAKE chatroom is going to help you answer a question about a friggin tort?!?!

Did you know any of that blah blah blah when he/it/grassy knoll came into the chat room?

Why should we have to walk away? Whether it be the boa guys coming in and taking over the chat, or this crap with the trolls, I am damn tired of ignoring people, making a new room, having to boot people, etc etc. Maybe that's wrong, but I'm just tired of doing it. Why can't people have one single shed of decency? It's a real pain to put someone on ignore, and then have them leave and come back over and over again----each time having to put them on ignore. If the chat had a global ignore that would save your options....sure.

So many things to respond to here. I think your own words speak for themselves. I have no idea what was indecent about the way Joe_jo acted BEFORE he was told to "gtfo". Remember, I'm not condoning his behavior, but you really seem to be taking the stance that you did nothing wrong. Your behavior was deplorable.

While they might think it's cute to play with the troll, it really screws up the flow of the room. And IMO, we shouldn't have to run away from trolls---that's ridiculous.

And you didn't play with the troll? Interesting.

As for the 'private room' bit....what does it matter if it had a password or not?

Srsly?? Private means private. Duh!

Again, it is NOT about off topic discussion. Why can't you guys get that through your head. It is about how it is done and the way you present yourself.

Ah, but you have said it IS about off topic discussion so many times and so many ways. Also, you did not and do not present yourself well, and that is what YOU are not taking responsibility for. Bummer, I actually respected you for the changes you made in your behavior much earlier in your presence around here.

And Brent, you've been in chat on more than one occasion when something like this has happened and you've done the exact same things we have done, so do not get this 'holier than thou' nonsense---it's absolute garbage. I dont know what your problem is, but it sure seems that you're just interesting in 'fighting' and 'winning a debate', regardless of the actual merit of the debate.

First, where/when have I said that I am not to blame as well? Second, where/when have I EVER told someone to GTFO of any conversation?? You don't have it and won't find it. Don't lump me in with your lower level of picking on people. Do I make comments towards people in chat that I don't agree with, sure do. Do I use vulgar language within the chatroom? NOPE. Do I use vulgar behavior in the chatroom? NOPE. YOU did, and that's what's at issue here. So, buckup little soldier and do the right thing. Clean up your act and get off your own high horse. And I'm not fighting here, nor am I trying to win anything. I don't have any vested interest in chat because I DON"T spend 2-3 hours a night in chat. I'm there maybe 2-3 hours a month.

Hey, maybe next time I'm walking down the street and see a group of people talking, I'll walk up and interrupt them and ruin their conversation with some cornsnake chat. I bet they'd like that, don't you think? Come on folks, those people would tell me to STFU, they wouldn't "listen to what I had to say" because what I had just done was extremely rude----to the point that it's hardly ever done in the real world. I have no idea when this became accpetable online.

It's done all the time in the real world. It's how you meet new people. Especially at parties or company get togethers or social events. Dude, you need to get out of CHAT more often and mingle with real people.

One final comment: I've very disappointed with more than a few people that have responded to this thread---and participate in chat. You know who you are, so I'm not going to call anyone out---but for you folks to sit in chat and laugh at what is said to trolls, or to be in on the comments yourself---and then come here and scold us and tell us we're rude---SHAME on you.

No, SHAME on you Joe for representing Cornsnakes.com in such a vile manner as "gtfo" for absolutely no reason. Too bad.

D80

 

[Drizzt80]

I would consider this a valid point if there were people actually requesting help in the chat room, because when someone finally does have a serious question, it usually gets answered rather quickly. But there is a huge difference between the every day newbie coming in to ask a snake question and some idiot going in there to literally demand answers (which can usually be found on Google). I think it's pretty much understood people will respond better when someone asks for help politely than when they go in there blasting and flooding for info about random species of animals many of us have never even dealt with.

Carolos, right on with what you posted below this, and I agree with what you posted above for the most part, but what I fail to see is where this Joe_jo guy demanded answers. :shrugs: Besides, is there a newbie check before coming through the doors of the chatroom? Is there a knowledge level test that must be passed before we can ask/answer any questions? I blame Serp for my newfound look on the forums (and chat) with a comment he made a year or two ago about what is so wrong about helping newbies and answering the same questions over and over again. SO WHAT if it happens again and again and again in the chat room? SO WHAT if the questions are 'easy' and can be found anywhere. SO WHAT if the questions are worded with improper syntax and leetspeak. You can choose to answer or you can choose to ignore. Tell me though, when is it appropriate to give someone a "GTFO" before they have done anything to warrant it?! That's the issue here at its most basic form???

D80

 

[CARattler40]

Joe_jo guy demanded answers.

He didn't, I'm talking about the general events of the past few weeks or so. Insert a "Y R U GUSY NOT HELPNG ME??????!!!!!" between his initial question and the part where he explodes, and that's been just about every troll who's come into the room recently.

Besides, is there a newbie check before coming through the doors of the chatroom? Is there a knowledge level test that must be passed before we can ask/answer any questions?

Obviously not, but I think you've misunderstood what I was trying to say. I'm trying to point out the difference between someone who's genuinely interested in listening to the advice people are going to give him, and someone who goes in, floods the question a couple times, then yells when nobody responds to him. Also, I don't mean to say that we're only allowed to talk about corns in the Corn chat room, but...would you go to a plumber to fix the transmission on your car? Unfortunately, that's the best way I can put it, but hopefully you can understand where I'm coming from. :shrugs:

I blame Serp for my newfound look on the forums (and chat) with a comment he made a year or two ago about what is so wrong about helping newbies and answering the same questions over and over again. SO WHAT if it happens again and again and again in the chat room? SO WHAT if the questions are 'easy' and can be found anywhere. SO WHAT if the questions are worded with improper syntax and leetspeak.

Brent, I don't think a single person in that chat room has any problem at all answering a newbie's questions, even if they're the same ones that have been coming up for the past 3-4 years. This has absolutely nothing to do with the topic at hand, IMO.

when is it appropriate to give someone a "GTFO" before they have done anything to warrant it?! That's the issue here at its most basic form???

To be quite honest with you, I don't know when or if anything deserves that kind of response. I also think it was said under the assumption this person was going to be another one of the trolls from the last week (Joe_Jo was in the room sometime last week. His behavior was just as bad as tonight, IIRC).

 

[Rich Z]

Well, honestly folks, if I continue to hear people on this site refer to those "Fauna People" in such a condescending manner, then obviously I need to take down the bridge that connects these two sites. Need I remind you that the chat was installed originally for the FaunaClassifieds site, and I only had this site tied into that chat system because a lot of you ASKED for a chat? If I take down the bridge, who do you think is going to be on the wrong side of that chasm?

Seriously, from the amount of rancor it is causing and exposing an obvious conflict between the two sites, is it really in my best interests to have this mud wrestling arena at all? I'll tell you what, I am SERIOUSLY considering just pulling the plug on the chat and being done with it. Obviously some people here cannot handle a real time online conversation such as the chat provides, and I certainly can do well enough without this sort of OPTIONAL aggravation.

 

[Drizzt80]

Carlos . . . You sure you're only 16? I have my doubts now!

He didn't, I'm talking about the general events of the past few weeks or so. Insert a "Y R U GUSY NOT HELPNG ME??????!!!!!" between his initial question and the part where he explodes, and that's been just about every troll who's come into the room recently.

Agreed, and not arguing that point at all. I am arguing the representation that was made from CS.com members. If "GTFO" isn't appropriate in any situation you can think of, there has to be better options to respond to these people than what was represented in the logs Rich shared. The only reason Joe is getting the finger pointed at him is that he tends to be the most vocal in defending himself back. I'm certainly not saying that I am NOT GUILTY either, but I have definitely not lowered myself to the levels displayed in those logs.

but...would you go to a plumber to fix the transmission on your car? Unfortunately, that's the best way I can put it, but hopefully you can understand where I'm coming from. :shrugs:

Depends, automatic or manual tranny? :grin01: I do understand where you're coming from.

Brent, I don't think a single person in that chat room has any problem at all answering a newbie's questions, even if they're the same ones that have been coming up for the past 3-4 years.

Ah, but this does tend to be the issue at hand quite often ("Use the search button for crying out loud!"), and this issue has an underlying stench of the same problem, trolls or not.

To be quite honest with you, I don't know when or if anything deserves that kind of response. I also think it was said under the assumption this person was going to be another one of the trolls from the last week (Joe_Jo was in the room sometime last week. His behavior was just as bad as tonight, IIRC).

Agreed, but two problems . . . A. We all know what assuming things does . . . B. In the logs Rich posted the Trolls were fed.

Again . . . You sure you're not lying about your age?!
D80

 

[CMLReptiles]

Just to throw some things into this...

Ignore: ever try to function in chat with somebody on ignore? it's near impossible, cause they can still read what you type, and you cant follow the convo.

Now, the "GTFO" was a little premature. But as has been said in the "treatment to newbies" thread, the whole picture isn't seen. Again, the "gtfo" was premature, but as has been stated there's been a BIG problem in chat lately with people coming in and completely ruining chat. Everybody was already annoyed with the events of the last few days, joe-jo just happened to be the unlucky person who had it all come out.

There's no need to close chat, no need to point the finger and place blame. There is a problem with trolls, the people in chat did over-react a little too quickly. End of story, lets move on with our lives.

 

[Vinman]

Take yourself out of the picture and read the transcript . With all honesty put yourself in this guy's shoes. See if you would not be offenended. What would it took for anybody to say sorry we can't help you we dont know about torts and you are interupting the conversation at hand try the kingsnake .com forum they have a tort chat and can help you. sorry good luck.
Insted you ignored him and then started making fun of him. Sorry you guys handeled it totaly wrong, total rude to this person . Fact you think you guys own this fourm the whole fourm. Now I see why I get ganged up on. One person makes a rude comment towards someone that is not in the clique, the person give's one back and like bunch of children you round up the troops and gang up on the person . Just like you did to Joe_Jo . You people are some peace of work. Not all of you but most of you . What you did to Joe_Jo was rude, childish and plain wrong . None of you would have liked it done to you. Rich Z you are total right!!! This is why I dont get mad anymore when they do this to me. I take with a grain of salt. They are the ones that get mad, and upset, so I win because they dont get to me . That is their goal, to get me pissed off and it dont work anymore.

On the other hand Rich Z you should make seperate chat rooms for diffrent herps. This would make things simple and no one will have there chat interuped with questions about other herps. Then you will have to deal with people getting mad about someone asking questions not pertaining to the subject at hand even though it maybe about the same herp. It is still no excuse for their conduct.

It makes you more of a person to admit you are wrong then to make excuesses. Sorry for the bad spelling.

Joe_Jo entered the room.
stephen_CS: butthead
CornCrazy_CS: LOL
Serpwidgets_CS: I think that is one of those snakes that will later "prove" that you can cross hypo X hypo and get non-hypos.
Joe_Jo: does n e one know n e thing about tortoises
CornCrazy_CS: You honestly do not think it is a hypo?
Serpwidgets_CS: With those borders, I really doubt it.
stephen_CS: butt....
CornCrazy_CS: but look at the color of the borders...the melanin is reduced.
Serpwidgets_CS: LOL Stephen.
stephen_CS: heh
Joe_Jo: does n e one know n e thing about tortoises
Serpwidgets_CS: Dude
hana_CS: This is CORN SNAKE chat
CARattler40_CS: Just ignore it
CARattler40_CS: It'll go away.
Serpwidgets_CS: LOL
CornCrazy_CS: Ummm...does this look like a tortoise room?
terrysangel79_CS: they got shells i think lol
CornCrazy_CS: we are discussing corn snakes...
CornCrazy_CS: LOL
CARattler40_CS: They swim.
breedingcolors_CS: Here are the babies from the first clutch, the second clutch I got 2 amels, 4 normals and this one
breedingcolors_CS: http://www.breedingcolors.com/english/pairing01.html
Joejr14_CS: dis is da cron sankie chat room
Joejr14_CS: gtfo
Weebonilass_CS: <--- checking snakie for hard shell............ nope, no travel trailer
jazzgeek_CS: I know some thing about tortoises.
stephen_CS: they dont swim Carlos
CornCrazy_CS: Their lungs are positioned in a weird place.
CARattler40_CS: SHHH
jazzgeek_CS: and that thing is "Tortoises are not corn snakes".
Joe_Jo: U GUYS ARE ASS HOLES. NO ONE ELSE IS ON AND I HAVE A SIMPLE QUESTION. U GUYS DONT GIVE N E ONE A CHANCE TO ASK QUESTIONS. UR %&*!ING RETARDS WHO THINK UR SO COOL WITH UR _CS AT THE END OF YOUR NAMES.
Joejr14_CS: GTFO
breedingcolors_CS: LMAO
Joe_Jo: IT STANDS FOR COCK SUCKERS
Candy_Cane1_CS: GTFO.
Joejr14_CS: You stand for BANNED
Joe_Jo: U !@#$ING PIECES OF %&*!
Serpwidgets_CS: Buhbye
Joe_Jo: ALL OF U R
hana_CS: lol
Joe_Jo: FAGGOTS
Joe_Jo: GAY
Joejr14_CS: and you will be banned
Joe_Jo: SUCK DICK
Joejr14_CS: goodbye!
Serpwidgets_CS: LMAFO
Joe_Jo: LICK ASS HOLE
stephen_CS: n e n e no no e n ting?
Candy_Cane1_CS: I am and only said GTFO.
Joejr14_CS: Don't make me call Rich, Joe_Jo
Joe_Jo: AND HAVE NO RESPECT CUZ U ALL HAVE EACHOTHERS THUMB UP EVERYONE ELSES ASS HOLE
jazzgeek_CS: Welcome to Cornsnake Chat, Oh Childish Twerp With Tourette's.
Serpwidgets_CS: You are a jerk because you couldn't answer Caroline's question.
Joe_Jo: CALL HIM I DONT GIVE A !@#$
Joe_Jo: &*!@ ALL OF U
CornCrazy_CS: LOL@Chuck!
hana_CS: wow.. looks like we've got a live one..
jazzgeek_CS: Joe_Jo, what time is it where you live?
Joe_Jo: LIVE DICK FOR UR MOUTH
stephen_CS: haha
Joe_Jo: PEACE OUT U $%&*ING DICKS
Candy_Cane1_CS: I'd like to know so i can go shoot him in the face
Serpwidgets_CS: Wow, puberty sucks
jazzgeek_CS: ROFLMAO
Joe_Jo has left the room.

 

[Mary-Beth]

I don't have anything to say about chat, I've only been there twice, but I have something to say about the "clique". I've never felt like there was a clique here, even when I was a newbie. When I first joined I saw people talking and interacting with each other like they were friends... and that's because they are. Post enough and people will get to know you. Some will like you, some won't. It's the way things work out in the real world too people. There's no secret society of chosen ones here, just a group of people who know and are comfortable with each other.

 

[Tula_Montage]

I myself am a bit of a chat fiend, and during the recent months I have spent many a night of insomnia in CS chat. I enjoy the "regulars" whit, humour and conversation we have. I don't enjoy people coming in and acting like total prats, demanding attention on an offtopic discussion.

If I enter a full chatroom, I wait a few mins to read about what they are talking about THEN join in with something constructive. If the conversation does not interest me in any way shape or form, I set myself to away until the tides turn and something I will appreciate more comes about.

Call me crazy but I havent been in chat for more than a week now because of these idiots from fauna and some from CS. When Carlos opened the private room with a fitting title with I immediatly understood, I was in it for a few moments then left. I had no interest in breaking up the regularity of chat, I do like things the way they are. This DOES include the nightly trollip entertainment. Although I rarley join in these slagging matches, I am not hessitant to say GTFO if they cross that fine line between constructive questions and complete stupidity/arrogance.

Let me ask, why is this an issue again?!