Hi jvbernard,
Don't feel bad - I think we are all trying to help out and just "telling it straight", even if it does sound a little harsh at times. I don't think anyone is against you here - just trying to help.
I have done some really stupid things over the years - worse than keeping a pair of snakes together and getting unwanted eggs. If anyone who has kept lots of snakes for a long time says they never did anything stupid (either because they didn't know better, or weren't paying careful attention, or just forgot something), then I would be suspicious of that person's truthfullness. So don't feel guilty about anything already done.
The whole thing about discarding unwanted eggs is true. It pains me to think of it, because I really hate wasting anything, even though it could be less cruel to discard eggs than to put babies through unnecessary suffering if you weren't ready for them.
But it sounds like you have thought it out and made some plans. As long as you know what you are getting into, go for it. If you are interested in breeding, you will have to start practising sometime. Most of the people here will give you great advice to help you through. Don't be defensive if they question you thoroughly - it is how we find out if you DO know what you are getting into, and thus what advice should be given to you.
Once you are into corns for a while, and also a longtime participant here, you will see exactly why the questions and advice sometimes seems harsher than it really is. Just takes some experience to understand it all.
In the meantime, prepare for lots of fun, hard work, occasional set backs, and lots of learning!