I normally stay out of these types of topics and flame wars, but these with David seem to be so consistent with the same type of arguments for and against whatever snake he want's to get next. This whole, "do you have a plan?" stuff is ridiculous as has been pointed out because regardless of age, life is ever changing and it has no bearing on age, experience or planning. Sure, a contingency plan for certain events is wise, but even the best contingency plans might not meet the demands of the unexpected.
I also understand that some of you are concerned for the care and well being of David's animals. Do any of you know that he's in fact
not taking good care of the animals he owns now? If it were known that David was neglecting his animals, then I could understand the concerns posted here. Otherwise all of this negative posting towards David is pure conjecture in what seems like a very sanctimonious tone. Something of which does not seem warranted nor wanted by David. If you don't like how he's doing or planning things, remember this, it's his life, not yours.
The questions I am going to ask do not require answers from David but are more poised to get him to sit down and think about the choices he's making. In fact, I would advise to you David in not trying to answer them here or really to anybody other than yourself or people close to you as this is more of a soul searching kind of endeavor.
What I have to ask of David is this:
What are your ultimate goals for keeping reptiles?
What do you plan to achieve with each new species you keep?
What are you learning from keeping all of your reptiles?
Have you learned so much from what you already have that you need to acquire more exotic species to expand your knowledge?
Is the short time you've had all of your reptiles really a large enough time frame to know everything about them?
With every new species you acquire, what is it about that particular species that you think you can learn from or how do they fit in with your overall plans and goals on keeping reptiles?
Where do you see yourself in 5, 10, 15, 20 years and how do your reptiles fit within that foresight?
I pose these questions because they more or less relate to my 15+ years of keeping reptiles and how I now look back at some of the decisions I made that were not well thought out or how life created some difficult hurdles that ultimately affected the animals we kept due to our ever changing life. One of which I'll refer to this
post.
I am in no position to tell David what he should or should not do and I only wish him the best in his endeavors. But I would ask him to sit down and think about the reasons why obtaining all of these new reptiles in such a short time span is wanted, needed or even necessary. Perhaps you can have your mother ask you the above questions I posed and you can give your answers to her and have a one on one dialogue with her. It might prove enlightening as sometimes verbally discussing things and/or involving someone close to you can bring forth thoughts and ideas that would have been shrouded otherwise.
You obviously are a smart kid with a lot of ambition and it sounds like you have a great support system of a family. In the end, I wish you all the best with your life and hope all the decisions you make come to fruition the way you plan.