dave partington
Crazy Dave
I miss Lavender.
I believe you believe this. Some people who are raped and beaten also believe that this treatment was well deserved. Some even empathize with their captors and take up their cause. There are of course studies on this as well.
What's the difference between spanking and hitting?It doesn't mean seriously hitting children is a valid educational tool- but
I want the unicorn that poops rainbows!
What about skittles....?
Don't they all?
What if it just has gas??
Rainbow colored clouds?
What's the difference between spanking and hitting?
If I used a belt to hit a adult I would go to prison for assault (and maybe assault with a weapon.) But do the exact same thing to a little child and it's called a spanking. Violence teaches violence, hitting makes hitters and abuse creates abusers.
I'm glad to hear that. Others haven't been so lucky. For a child living in fear of the belt life can be shear torture. And this causes many mental and emotional problems which affect them though out their entire lives and they continue the circle of hitting their own child.So are you saying that those of us that were spanked as children, maybe even with a metal or wooden serving spoon, or even a belt grow up to to be violent? Huh. I guess I didn't learn that one growing up. I think I turned out pretty good.
I'm glad to hear that. Others haven't been so lucky. For a child living in fear of the belt life can be shear torture. And this causes many mental and emotional problems which affect them though out their entire lives and they continue the circle of hitting their own child.
http://www.chicagonow.com/running-w...spanking-can-psychologically-damage-children/
What about skittles....?
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Hmmm......“The studies do not discriminate well between non-abusive and overly severe types of corporal punishment,” Larzelere says. “You get worse outcomes from corporal punishment than from alternative disciplinary techniques only when it is used more severely or as the primary discipline tactic.”
In a meta-analysis of 26 studies, Larzelere and a colleague found that an approach they described as “conditional spanking” led to greater reductions in child defiance or anti-social behavior than 10 of 13 alternative discipline techniques, including reasoning, removal of privileges and time out (Clinical Child and Family Psychology Review, 2005). Larzelere defines conditional spanking as a disciplinary technique for 2- to 6-year-old children in which parents use two open-handed swats on the buttocks only after the child has defied milder discipline such as time out.
The new research refutes the idea that more aggressive children are more likely to be spanked, Berlin said. On the other hand, the study did find that children who were fussier at age 1 were more likely to be spanked and verbally punished, she said.
Verbal punishment did not appear to have the same detrimental effects as spanking in this study, Berlin said.
Some remain unconvinced that parents should never spank their children. Robert Larzelere, associate professor of human development and family science at Oklahoma State University, conducted a meta-analysis of 26 studies on the subject, and found that, overall, spanking seemed more effective than 10 of 13 alternative disciplinary methods for getting a child to behave or do as asked.
Much of the research on the subject does not clearly demonstrate a causal link, Larzelere said. For example, in comparing studies, children who are spanked and children who are taken to psychologists both are more likely to have aggressive behavior later, he said.
The best use of spanking, Larzelere said, is in children between the ages of 2 and 6 when milder discipline tactics, such as time out, fail.
"That's why psychologists trained parents to use spanking that way for 25 years [from the] late '60s to mid-'90s," he said. Now, the trend of advice is away from spanking, but there's not much hard evidence to support it, he said.
Berlin's study focused on particularly early ages, Larzelere noted; much of the spanking literature focuses on ages 2 and older. Twelve months is probably too early to spank children, but there's no established point between ages 1 and 2 at which it is appropriate, he said.
I can honestly say, I feel like I have model citizens as children.